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Kathyrn Chociej

Therapist · Washington

Kathyrn Chociej, LICSW

Compassionate support for life’s difficult moments

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  • Stress and anxiety
  • Grief and loss
  • LGBT concerns

About Kathyrn

Kathyrn Chociej is a Licensed Independent Clinical Social Worker (LICSW) based in Washington. She helps people who are managing stress, anxiety, LGBT concerns, relationship strain, trauma, and grief. Her plain approach aims to make the first steps feel manageable and clear.

She treats grief and loss as part of life’s difficulties and supports people learning to cope after major changes. Kathyrn emphasizes the person’s own knowledge about their life, and looks for strengths to build on. Sessions focus on practical steps that make daily life easier and more hopeful.

Over a decade of work in mental health has given her experience with a wide range of concerns. That includes chronic pain, illness, and disability, as well as issues like codependency, control struggles, and navigating gender dysphoria. She also offers support around end-of-life and hospice concerns, midlife transitions, and financial stress.

Kathyrn aims to make therapy collaborative. She listens, helps set goals, and suggests changes you can try between meetings. The emphasis is on small, realistic shifts that add up over time.

If you want a direct, compassionate helper who respects your story, Kathyrn provides steady support while you work toward clearer routines and less distress.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Additional focus areas

Aging and geriatric issuesBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCodependencyControl issuesDependent personalityDivorce and separationDomestic violenceGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameHospice and end-of-life counselingLife purposeMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesNarcissismPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsSelf-loveSexualityWomen's issuesWorkplace issues

Experience

10+ years

Credentials

Washington

Languages

English

Practical therapy approaches for online care

Evidence-based techniques used in practice focus on clear, teachable skills that people can try between sessions. One approach emphasizes skills for managing stress and anxiety through step-by-step strategies like breathing, pacing activities, and breaking problems into smaller tasks. This helps when worry or overwhelm is getting in the way of daily routines.

Another approach targets coping with grief, loss, and traumatic memories by creating gradual, manageable ways to process strong emotions. The work often includes naming feelings, building routines that restore energy, and planning small actions that reconnect people to what matters to them.

Finding the right approach is part of the work, and the therapist will collaborate with each person to choose methods that fit their goals and preferences. That means trying techniques, checking what helps, and adjusting the plan together over time.

Confirm current session options before booking so you know which formats are available. Online therapy can make it easier to fit appointments into busy days, reduce travel time, and allow quicker follow-up between sessions. It also lets people use shorter check-ins when needed or choose sessions that suit their daily schedule without changing where they live.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does Kathyrn help people with?

She works with stress, anxiety, relationship strain, trauma and abuse, and grief. Additional focus areas include chronic pain, aging issues, codependency, and gender dysphoria.

What is her approach to therapy?

Her work is collaborative and practical. She centers the client’s own knowledge and looks for strengths to use in everyday life.

How long has she been practicing?

Kathyrn has 10 years of professional experience in mental health settings.

What credentials and where is she licensed?

She holds a LICSW and is licensed in Washington.

Which languages are supported?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can people outside the United States work with her?

International clients are not currently accepted.

How do sessions and cost work?

Cost varies by location and therapist availability, and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working with Kathyrn?

Select the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to therapist availability.

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