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Colette Safhill

Therapist · United Kingdom

Colette Safhill, BACP

Person-centred psychotherapist with practical focus

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  • 20 years experience
  • BACP accredited
  • Person-centred approach

About Colette

Colette Safhill is a person-centred psychotherapist with 20 years of experience. She is BACP accredited, and she meets clients with a calm, non-judgemental approach. She listens to what people bring and helps them find ways forward that feel right for them.

Colette works with a wide range of concerns including stress, anxiety, depression, addictions, grief and relationship difficulties. She also supports people with issues around eating, sleeping, intimacy, self-esteem and life transitions. Her practice includes work related to trauma and abuse, and she has experience with adoption and caregiving challenges.

Her approach centres on the person rather than labels. Sessions focus on what matters to the individual, using conversation to build understanding and small practical steps to ease daily strain. Techniques from cognitive and behavioural approaches or mindfulness may be used when helpful, alongside longer-term reflective work.

Colette has undertaken post-qualifying training across different therapy types, including relationship work, eating disorders, domestic abuse, adoption-related themes and EMDR. She uses that range to tailor sessions to each person's needs, balancing problem-solving with emotional support.

She offers sessions in the United Kingdom and works with people from other countries as well. Sessions are offered in English and can be arranged in person, by phone or online depending on the person's preference. To begin, people complete a short matching questionnaire and then schedule according to availability.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyAddictionsRelationship issuesFamily conflictsDepression

Also works with

LGBTTrauma and abuseGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesCoping with life changesCoaching

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesAttachment issuesBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBody imageCancerCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCodependencyCommunication problemsControl issuesDependent personalityDissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHoardingImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesMood disordersNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksPhobiasPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesWorkplace issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR)Gottman MethodMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingSolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

20+ years

Credentials

BACP · United Kingdom

Languages

English

Approaches that translate to online work

Client-Centred Therapy places the person at the heart of sessions and uses listening and reflective conversation to build understanding. It can help with emotional distress, relationship worries and adjusting to life changes. Cognitive Behavioural Therapy focuses on identifying unhelpful thoughts and behaviours and practising small changes; it is often used for anxiety, depression and sleep difficulties. Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing, or EMDR, is a trauma-informed approach that works with distressing memories to reduce their emotional intensity and the reactions they trigger.

Finding the right approach is a collaborative process. The therapist will talk with the person about their goals and preferences and agree a way of working together. That might mean trying short, practical strategies first or focusing on deeper emotional material over time.

The profile indicates sessions can be arranged online, by phone or in person, so please confirm the exact formats available before booking. Online or phone sessions can make it easier to fit counselling into a busy day, allow shorter check-ins when needed and remove travel time. Working remotely also helps people keep continuity of care when life circumstances change, while the therapist will still shape each session to the person's aims and practical needs.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does Colette help with?

She supports people with stress, anxiety, depression, addictions, relationship difficulties and grief. Additional areas include eating and sleeping problems, intimacy, self-esteem and coping with life changes.

How would you describe her therapeutic style?

Her work is person-centred and non-judgemental, focusing on what each client brings into the room. She combines listening and practical steps, and may draw on cognitive and behavioural ideas or mindfulness when useful.

What is her professional background?

Colette trained as a person-centred psychotherapist at the University of Essex and has around 20 years of practice. She has completed post-qualifying training in areas such as relationship work, trauma, adoption and EMDR.

Where is she located and what credential does she hold?

She practises in the United Kingdom and is BACP accredited, as stated in her profile.

Which languages and international arrangements are supported?

Sessions are offered in English and she accepts international clients.

What session formats are available?

The biography states she is qualified to work in person, by phone and online. Confirm the current session options before booking to match your needs.

How are fees and billing handled?

Costs vary with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time.

What do I need to do to start?

Use the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire and then schedule sessions according to the therapist's availability.

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