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Elena Simona Lazar

Therapist · United Kingdom

Elena Simona Lazar, BACP

Compassionate counsellor for life’s difficult moments

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  • Person-centred care
  • Systemic perspective
  • Supports resilience

About Elena

Elena Simona Lazar is a counsellor who trained and practised in the United Kingdom. She holds BACP accreditation and brings six years of professional experience to her work. Elena draws on a background in nursing and subsequent counselling studies to shape how she meets people in therapy.

Her approach is warm and non-judgemental. Sessions are aimed at helping people name what they feel and understand recurrent patterns. She encourages gentle exploration of painful emotions and supports practical steps towards clearer thinking and better day-to-day coping.

Elena uses a mix of client-centred work, Internal Family Systems ideas, and systemic thinking to tailor sessions to each person. That might mean focusing on immediate coping strategies one week and exploring relationship dynamics the next. She adapts techniques to the individual rather than following a single method.

She helps with a broad range of concerns, including stress, anxiety, depression, relationship and family matters, addictions, grief, low self-esteem, and issues around parenting, career and health challenges. Additional topics she addresses include body image, chronic illness and caregiver stress.

Sessions aim to bring clarity about what someone is experiencing and to identify practical changes people can try between meetings. Elena also works on communication patterns, intimacy-related worries and managing anger. The emphasis is on building inner resources and improving everyday functioning.

To begin, people are asked to use the site Start Therapy button and complete a short matching questionnaire. Scheduling is then arranged according to the therapist's availability.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesFamily conflictsAnger managementSelf esteem

Also works with

AddictionsTrauma and abuseIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersParenting issuesCareer difficultiesDepressionCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAvoidant personalityBlended family issuesBody imageCancerCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCodependencyCommunication problemsControl issuesDependent personalityDivorce and separationDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily problemsFatherhood issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHIV / AIDSHospice and end-of-life counselingImmigration issuesInfidelityIntellectual disabilityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPostpartum depressionPregnancy and childbirthSelf-loveSexual dysfunctionSocial anxiety and phobiaWorkplace issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyInternal Family SystemsSystemic Therapy

Experience

6+ years

Credentials

BACP · United Kingdom

Languages

English, Romanian

How Elena’s approaches translate to online work

Client-Centred Therapy places the person’s experience at the heart of sessions. The therapist listens carefully and follows the person’s pace, helping them find their own insights and decisions. It is useful for building confidence, dealing with low self-esteem and handling everyday stress.

Internal Family Systems looks at different parts inside a person and how they relate. Sessions often involve naming these parts, understanding their needs, and helping them work together more kindly. This approach can help with trauma responses, shame, and patterns that repeat in relationships.

Systemic Therapy considers the wider patterns in relationships and family life. It helps identify how communication and roles affect difficulties and supports practical changes in how people relate to one another.

Finding the right approach is part of the work itself. Elena will collaborate with each person to decide which ideas and exercises fit their goals and preferences. She may try a practical coping technique for a few weeks and then shift to deeper parts work if that seems helpful.

When planning online sessions, confirm the exact session formats available before booking. Online work can make it easier to fit therapy into a busy life - for example it can reduce travel time, allow shorter check-ins during a break, or remove the need to be on camera if someone prefers audio-only. These practical benefits help therapy slot into everyday life without changing the therapeutic focus.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems does she help with?

She works with a wide range of concerns such as stress, anxiety, depression, relationship and family difficulties, addictions, grief, low self-esteem, and coping with health challenges.

How would you describe her therapeutic style?

Her style is warm and non-judgemental, focusing on listening and helping people name feelings. She blends practical coping work with deeper exploration of relationship patterns.

What relevant background does she bring?

She has six years of experience and a prior career in nursing, which shaped her interest in emotional as well as physical wellbeing.

What credential and location information is available?

She is accredited by the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP) and practices in the United Kingdom.

Which languages are sessions offered in?

Sessions are offered in English and Romanian.

Can international clients work with her?

She does not accept international clients at this time.

How are sessions paid for and what do they cost?

Cost varies by location and the platform subscription used. Sessions use a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time.

What should I do to start therapy?

Use the Start Therapy button on the site, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions according to the therapist's availability.

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