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Lance Lashley

Therapist · New Mexico

Lance Lashley, LCSW, LISW

Compassionate social worker focused on practical progress

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  • Anxiety and depression
  • LGBTQ related concerns
  • Practical skill building

About Lance

Lance Lashley is a licensed clinical social worker who practices in New Mexico and Iowa. He has six years of experience helping people who struggle with anxiety, depression, bipolar disorder, and LGBTQ concerns. He focuses on meeting each person where they are and creating a plan that fits their life. Lance aims for conversations that feel respectful and direct. He listens for what matters most to each person and adjusts his approach to match their needs. Sessions typically look at current problems and practical steps to feel steadier day to day. He uses a mix of approaches depending on the situation. That can mean learning skills to manage intense emotions, trying small experiments to change unhelpful thoughts, or talking through patterns that keep recurring. His work is collaborative - the client helps set goals and priorities. Lance also supports people facing chronic illness, chronic pain, body image concerns, and money-related stress. He addresses relationship struggles, communication breakdowns, loneliness, and issues tied to gender identity. He helps people who are coping with substance use concerns and dissociation as well. He holds the credentials LCSW, which stands for Licensed Clinical Social Worker, and LISW, Licensed Independent Social Worker. He practices in New Mexico and conducts sessions in English. To begin, clients use the Start Therapy button and complete a short matching questionnaire before scheduling.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyLGBTRelationship issuesBipolar disorderDepression

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAvoidant personalityBody imageChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCommunication problemsDependent personalityDissociationDrug and alcohol addictionFamily problemsGender dysphoriaIsolation / lonelinessMen's issuesMoney and financial issuesMood disordersNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksPersonality disordersPost-traumatic stressSeasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Sex addictionSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaWorkplace issues

Therapeutic approaches

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Motivational InterviewingPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapyInternal Family Systems

Experience

6+ years

Credentials

New Mexico, Iowa

Languages

English

How therapy approaches guide online sessions

CBT, or Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, focuses on the links between thoughts, feelings, and actions. It helps people spot unhelpful thinking and try new behaviors to reduce anxiety or low mood. DBT, Dialectical Behavior Therapy, teaches practical skills for managing intense emotions and improving relationships. It is often used when emotions feel overwhelming or when someone struggles with self-destructive patterns. Motivational Interviewing is a collaborative way to explore ambivalence and strengthen motivation for change, useful for substance concerns or when making lifestyle shifts.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. The therapist will talk with each person about goals, preferences, and what has or hasn't helped in the past. Together they choose techniques and priorities so sessions feel useful and relevant to everyday life.

Session formats are not specified in the biography, so confirm current options before booking. Online therapy can make it easier to fit sessions into a busy week, allow shorter check-ins when needed, and remove travel time. Licensed professionals can use the approaches above to help people manage stress, mood problems, relationship issues, and challenges related to chronic illness, adapting methods to what works best for each individual.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does this therapist commonly address?

Lance works with stress, anxiety, depression, bipolar disorder, and LGBT issues. He also focuses on relationship strain, chronic pain and illness, body image, substance use, and loneliness.

What is his therapeutic style like?

He combines practical skills training with time to talk through patterns. Sessions aim to identify small changes and build steady coping strategies.

How much clinical experience does he have?

He has six years of professional work experience supporting people with mood and relationship concerns.

What credentials and region are listed?

He holds LCSW (Licensed Clinical Social Worker) and LISW (Licensed Independent Social Worker) credentials and practices in New Mexico.

Which languages are sessions offered in?

Sessions are offered in English.

Does he work with international clients?

International clients are not currently accepted.

How is pricing handled?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability, and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

What steps are needed to start therapy?

Click the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule according to the therapist's availability.

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