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Monika Sury

Therapist · California

Monika Sury, LCSW

Calm, practical support for stress and relationships

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  • Compassionate listening
  • Practical coping skills
  • Focus on relationships

About Monika

Monika Sury is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker with 12 years of experience helping people cope with stress, anxiety, relationship struggles, grief, trauma, and low self-esteem. She works from California and offers care in English and Hungarian. Her approach centers on practical skills and steady support so people can feel more able to manage day-to-day challenges.

She creates a calm space to talk through what feels overwhelming. She listens for patterns that keep people stuck and helps them try new ways of reacting. Sessions focus on simple tools for managing anxiety, mood, and stress, plus ways to set boundaries and care for oneself.

Monika pays attention to attachment and relationship patterns, including issues tied to adoption, abandonment, blended families, and codependency. She also supports people dealing with chronic pain, illness, or disability and the caregiver stress that can come with those roles. She names these specific concerns so people with similar struggles can recognize a fit.

Her style is compassionate and nonjudgmental. She aims to help people build self-compassion and realistic plans for change. Work may include exploring how thoughts, feelings, and actions connect, then practicing different responses that feel manageable in real life.

People interested in starting will use the site's Start Therapy button to complete a short matching questionnaire and schedule sessions based on the therapist's availability. Fees vary by location and are handled through a cancelable subscription plan.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeBlended family issuesBody imageCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)DissociationDomestic violenceEating and food-related issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFertility issuesForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameImmigration issuesImpulsivityIntellectual disabilityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesMood disordersPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPhobiasPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationSeasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSexual assault and abuseSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaVisually impairedWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Experience

12+ years

Credentials

California

Languages

English, Hungarian

How therapeutic approaches guide online care

Monika uses evidence-based therapeutic techniques that focus on real-life change. One approach emphasizes identifying patterns between thoughts, feelings, and behaviors so people can try small, manageable behavior changes to reduce anxiety and improve mood. Another approach centers on attachment and relationship patterns, helping people understand how early and current relationships affect trust, boundaries, and communication.

Finding the right approach is a collaborative process. The therapist and client work together to decide which methods fit the person's goals and preferences. Plans are adjusted over time based on what helps most, and clients are invited to give feedback about pace and focus.

For practical matters, confirm which session formats are offered before booking since the biography does not list them. Online therapy can make it easier to fit sessions into a busy life by removing travel time, allowing shorter check-ins, or enabling work during a break. It can also make it simpler to connect across time zones for international clients. The therapist will discuss how to structure sessions so they work with daily routines and responsibilities.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does Monika commonly address?

She helps people manage stress, anxiety, relationship difficulties, trauma and abuse, grief, and self-esteem struggles. Additional focuses include attachment, adoption and foster care issues, caregiver stress, chronic illness or pain, and related challenges.

What is her therapeutic style like?

Her approach is compassionate, supportive, and nonjudgmental. Sessions emphasize practical skills, self-compassion, and understanding how thoughts, feelings, and actions connect.

How much clinical experience does she have?

She has 12 years of experience working with people on anxiety, stress, relationship patterns, trauma, grief, and related concerns.

What are her credentials and where is she located?

She holds the LCSW credential and practices from California.

Which languages are supported in sessions?

Sessions are offered in English and Hungarian, and she accepts international clients.

What session formats are offered?

The original biography does not specify session formats. Please confirm current session options before booking to know which formats are available.

How are fees and payments handled?

Fees vary with location and therapist availability. Sessions are billed through a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working with her?

Use the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule sessions according to the therapist's availability.

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