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Paul Linger

Therapist · United Kingdom

Paul Linger, BACP

Calm practical support for life’s hard moments

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  • Warm collaborative style
  • Practical goal focus
  • Values led work

About Paul

Paul Linger is a counsellor in the United Kingdom who helps people manage stress, anxiety, depression, trauma and abuse, addictions, and relationship concerns. He also supports those coping with grief, career pressures, parenting strain, chronic illness and other life changes. Paul brings a direct, respectful manner and encourages clients to use their own strengths as a starting point.

Paul draws on four years of professional therapeutic work and many more years in related services, including autism and additional needs work, addictions support, youth work and social care. That background includes time spent in the National Health Service within a community mental health setting, followed by private practice work in the UK.

Sessions tend to be warm and interactive. Paul aims to listen closely, reflect back what matters, and help people try practical changes between meetings. He mixes cognitive approaches with humanistic and person-centred ideas, and also uses attachment-focused thinking when it fits the issue.

Expect a tailored plan rather than one fixed method. Paul will work with each person to set clear goals and try steps that suit their life and values. He describes therapy as a partnership where the client’s knowledge of themselves guides the work.

Paul speaks English and is registered with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy, BACP. For people considering therapy he suggests a straightforward first step to match interests and schedules before arranging sessions.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyAddictionsRelationship issuesTrauma and abuseDepression

Also works with

Family conflictsGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCoaching

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeAvoidant personalityBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBlended family issuesBody imageCancerCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)DissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFertility issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameHoardingHospice and end-of-life counselingImmigration issuesImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMoney and financial issuesMood disordersNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPhobiasPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Existential TherapyJungian TherapyMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

4+ years

Credentials

BACP · United Kingdom

Languages

English

Therapeutic approaches and remote working

Paul uses Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, which helps people notice unhelpful thoughts and choose actions that match their values rather than get stuck in avoidance. This approach can help with anxiety, depression, chronic health conditions and adjusting to life changes.

He also draws on Attachment-Based Therapy ideas to look at how early relationships influence current patterns, helping clients understand intimacy, trust and emotional responses in relationships.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. Paul treats therapy as a collaboration and will discuss which methods feel most useful for the person’s goals and preferences. He adjusts techniques as progress and needs become clearer.

Practical benefits of online therapy can include fitting sessions around work or family commitments and avoiding travel time. The biography does not specify which remote session formats are offered, so confirm the current session options before booking. Many people find online meetings convenient for shorter check-ins or for maintaining continuity when life is busy.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems can this counsellor help with?

He supports people facing stress, anxiety, depression, trauma, addictions and relationship difficulties, plus issues such as grief, parenting strain, chronic illness and career changes.

How would he describe his therapy style?

Paul offers a warm, interactive approach that emphasises respect and sensitivity. He works collaboratively and aims to set practical goals that fit the client’s life.

What experience does he bring to sessions?

He has four years of direct therapeutic practice and additional experience working in autism support, addictions, youth work and social care, including time in the NHS community mental health service.

What professional credentials and location are listed?

Paul is registered with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy, BACP, and he practises in the United Kingdom.

Which languages are available for sessions?

Sessions are offered in English.

Are international clients supported?

International clients are not currently accepted.

How are sessions paid for and what does cost look like?

Cost varies with location and therapist arrangements; sessions use a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time.

What should I do to start therapy with him?

Choose the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions according to the therapist’s availability.

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