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Paula Ciocirlau

Therapist · United Kingdom

Paula Ciocirlau, BACP

Practical, person-focused therapy for real life

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  • Collaborative approach
  • English and Romanian
  • BACP registered

About Paula

Paula Ciocirlau is a counsellor who helps people facing stress, anxiety, depression and major life changes. She supports those dealing with relationship and parenting concerns, grief, addictions, chronic illness and other challenges. Paula works in English and Romanian and practises from the United Kingdom. Her approach is collaborative and straightforward. Paula uses Client-Centred Therapy to follow what matters most to the person in front of her. She brings Solution-Focused ideas to help set clear, practical goals and notice small changes. Internal Family Systems ideas are used when people want to understand different parts of themselves and how those parts interact. Paula trained and began practising in 2016 in Vienna, Austria. Her experience over eight years includes supporting people from varied cultural backgrounds. She holds BACP registration, which is shown here exactly as supplied. In sessions she aims for a calm, respectful tone and helps people set achievable steps. Conversations focus on real-life problems like sleep, eating, work pressures, parenting strain, intimacy difficulties or coping after loss. Practical coping skills and small experiments are commonly used alongside deeper talk about feelings and past experiences. People who choose Paula often want clear goals and warm professional support while they try different ways to manage daily life. To start, readers should follow the site process and schedule according to the therapist's availability.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesParenting issuesCareer difficultiesDepression

Also works with

AddictionsLGBTFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersAnger managementSelf esteemBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeAvoidant personalityBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBlended family issuesBody imageCancerCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)DissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFertility issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameHearing impairedHIV / AIDSHoardingImmigration issuesImpulsivityInfidelityIntellectual disabilityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPhobiasPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaSomatizationTraumatic brain injuryTrichotillomaniaVisually impairedWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapySolution-Focused TherapyInternal Family Systems

Experience

8+ years

Credentials

BACP · United Kingdom

Languages

English, Romanian

How Paula's approaches translate to online work

Client-Centred Therapy is about listening and following what matters most to the person. Online sessions using this approach focus on allowing people to steer the conversation and feel understood while they set their own pace. Solution-Focused Therapy emphasises small, practical steps toward clear goals. In remote sessions this can mean setting simple tasks between meetings and checking progress in short, direct ways that fit everyday life. Internal Family Systems helps people notice different inner parts and how they relate. When used online, it often involves gentle guided reflection and naming parts to make sense of internal conflicts and emotional reactions. Finding the right approach is part of the work. Paula will collaborate with each person to select methods that suit their needs, goals and preferences. This is an open process and can change as a person learns what helps them most. Please confirm which session options are currently offered before booking, as the biography does not list formats. Online work can make it easier to fit therapy into a busy week, reduce travel time, and allow shorter check-ins when needed. Consider practical factors like having a quiet moment, shorter breaks from work, or not needing to commute when deciding if online meetings suit your routine.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems does Paula help with?

She works with stress, anxiety, depression and coping with life changes. Other areas include relationships, parenting, grief, addictions, chronic illness and self-esteem concerns.

How would you describe her therapeutic style?

Her style is collaborative and practical. Sessions combine person-centred listening with goal-focused steps and parts-work when it suits the person.

What is Paula's professional background?

Paula began practising in 2016 in Vienna, Austria and has eight years of experience. Her work has been shaped by international study and life experience.

What credentials and region are listed?

The profile lists BACP as the credential and shows a United Kingdom location.

Which languages are supported for sessions?

Sessions are offered in English and Romanian, and international clients are accepted.

What session formats are available?

The original biography does not specify session formats; please confirm current session options before booking.

How does pricing work?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.

What is the first step to begin working together?

Select the Start Therapy button, complete the short matching questionnaire, and then schedule according to the therapist's availability.

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